My mother always says, “Those who talk to you, talk about you.” It’s so true. Whatever you say next, will be carried forward, “Well, Mrs. Green said that she thinks what happened is terrible, and that they should (insert here)!” Now you’ve been quoted, perhaps you did say that, but the delivery of “what Mrs. Green” said has transmuted from a comment of empathy and forgiveness for the victim of the gossip, to one of condemnation. Suddenly, without even knowing, the poisonous s